Wondering who to choose? Follow your heart and your feeling. My advice is that once you have made the decision don't ever regret nor look back.

Ah Zhi,
Frankly speaking, I do not know them personally but through the conversation I can feel that both of them do really like you. Well, think over it carefully, A is going back to his hometown in a few years time and B is now having his overseas exchange programme (Errr......you never know what he did over there. Ok, it sounded negative. Hee hee.....).

Do think over the following questions before decision making. This is just a guideline and you can add on your own questions for evaluation. (Gosh, I feel that I'm so business oriented, typical marketing student. lol)

It's Evaluation Time


Are you ready for relationship? (If your answer is NO, then you can forget to answer the rest of the question.)



Do you really like him or do you treat him like a brother or close friend?



Do you feel happy or comfortable when you are with him?



Does he click well with your friends and family?



Does his or your family can accept you or him?



Who do you think will bring happiness to you in the future?



Is he the person who can really lead you in daily life?



Is he the one who can lead you from friendship to courtship to matrimony?



Is he someone that you really want to spend the rest of your life with?



Think over it carefully and guard your heart. Hmmm... keep this in mind that things will change before and after courtship and also before and after marriage. Think over it and ask Shi Yun to pray with you ya.



Ps: I know it's sounded extravagant to talk about marriage but doesn't a relationship lead to the path of marriage in one fine day?



Take care